1. LEGGINGS ARE NOT PANTS
L.A.P.S.(Leggings As Pants Syndrome) is an epidemic spreading across the nation infecting teenage and college women. So hopefully I can clear up a few things that girls might not know. Leggings should not be worn as pants and they were not made to be worn as pants. I understand how comfortable they seem but some people do not want to see how much you can accentuate your butt. Honestly, when a girl wears leggings it looks like you're completely bottomless and just spray painted black from your waist down. Secondly, it is my understanding that some girls wear leggings to obtain a guys attention. However, do you really want the attention from a guy who just wants to get you in bed or walks directly behid you to look at your butt? I hope not.
With all of this being said, leggings can be worn at time. Think of leggins as a sort of accessory for your legs. Leggings are meant to be layered under something. They can look super cute under a short/long skirt, a dress, or long shirt. So I understand that L.A.P.S. is taking control of our young women but if we stand together we can fight it.
2. Breasts Attract the Rest
What I mean by this is that showing off your cleavage tends to attract the kind of boys that you would not want to be in a long relationship with. A girl should not have to push her boobs out of her shirt to get attention from guys. Plus, would you want to take the guy that's attracted to your breasts and not you home to meet your parents? I hope not. If a guy dates you for your breasts then he's not right for you. Relationships are not all about looks and sexual desires. That is why the divorce rate in America is so high right now, couples became attracted to the significant other sexually and to who that person is. So for every guys sake, please cover up. We know you have boobs, you don't have to show us.
3. Be Yourself
Do not try to act like you think a guy wants you to be. A girl should never have to change who she is for a guy to fall in love with her. If a guy does not fall in love with who your truly are then they are not the right guy for you. Plus, what do you think will happen if you change who you appear to be to attract a guy and then as you start dating you revert to your old self. It will never work out. Allow yourself to be ok with who you are and allow a guy to love that person and I promise that you will find exactly who you are supposed to be.
4. Let The Boy Be A Man
You are a lady and he is supposed to be the gentleman, let him be. Too many times have I seen girls of my generation become offended when a guy tries to open the door or help them into a car. He is not showing you that you are inferior, he is just showing you how much he cares. So next time you are on a date, allow the guy to pay for your meal, open the door, and pull out your chair for you.
Secondly, the guy should want to do all of these things for you. If he's not a gentleman then he's not right for you. Some friends of my family take this quite seriously. In fact, if the husband does not open his wifes car door for her then she will stay in the car until he comes back to get her. I am only saying this so that you know what you should expect from the perfect guy.
5. Patience Is A Virtue...
When looking for the perfect mate, please do not rush into anything. You will only end up hurt in the end. Do not jump on the first guy that looks like Ryan Reynolds because you are in want of love. The right guy will come along when he is supposed to. If you rush into a relationship with someone else then you might just miss him. Secondly, sometimes you should listen to your girlfriends when they say you do not work with that guy. They can see things that maybe you are just blocking out.
So let the right guy come along and I promise, you will be happy.
P.S. I'm single ladies ;)
-Bearded Harmony
So true! :)
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